From Left to Right: Row 1: Photos of City Ong (aka CT) and Adventures of Gautam. Row 2: Art of Shubhada and Signature Smile of Xiomara
By Phoebe Pineda
Point to Ponder: Success leaves clues. Go figure out what someone who was successful did, and model it. Improve it, but learn their steps. They have knowledge – Tony Robbins
Storyline: Recently, we’ve spotlighted some people who exhibit extraordinary passion, creativity, and kindness despite maintaining busy work lives. Looking at these remarkable stories, we’ve identified a few commonalities:
- Childhood experiences: How people grow up is important in building the foundation for who they become as adults. Shubhada grew up immersed in art and science; Xiomara lived in a social neighborhood where everyone knew each other; and Gautam spent his youth watching sunsets and exploring forests in the remote outskirts of Mysore, India. For CT, the youngest child with the big age gap with siblings, he exercised his imagination while playing alone.
- Support and encouragement: Having a supportive environment and people who are invested in your well-being is key. In addition to having parents who made sure he didn’t overwork himself, Gautam had a friend in high school who took him under her wing and helped him navigate the tumult of adolescence. Shubhada had very supportive parents. CT and Xiomara were deeply influenced by their mothers.
- A turning point: Several of our subjects can pinpoint the moment they discovered their passion, whether by volunteering to take photos at a conference (CT) or borrowing money from their best friend to buy a train ticket to Nepal (Gautam).
- Curiosity/risk-taking: Our subjects like to venture beyond the beaten path, driven by a desire to see the world in new and exciting ways. Shubhada utilizes out-of-the-box thinking (OBT) in both her engineering career and her artwork; Gautam seeks out the roads less traveled as he explores new countries; and CT finds his camera lens drawn to everything from sunsets to animals to a drop of dew on a leaf.
- Building a relationship between passion and profession: Just because your interests are diverse doesn’t mean lessons from one can’t be applied to the other. Shubhada approaches both engineering and art with creativity and a methodical focus, and CT finds he’s at his most focused and ready to work after he’s spent some time taking photographs.
- COVID as an opportunity: With the pandemic slowing life down, our subjects have embraced their passions. CT documented life in his Malaysian neighborhood, Gautam and his family hit the road to Florida and Yosemite, Shubhada drew daily charcoal portraits of inspiring people, and Xiomara encouraged those around her to remain positive despite the circumstances.
- Love first: Though some make money from their passion, they do it primarily because they love it, and because they want to share the joy it brings them with the world.
Reflection: In Developing Talent in Young People, psychologist Benjamin Bloom identifies three key elements that are crucial to helping children discover and foster lifelong passions: exposure, support, and coaching.
My younger brother and I have been lucky enough to have parents willing to allow us to experience and experiment with different interests rather than limiting us to a rigid set of expectations. As a family, we love to travel–and to eat–and over the years my brother and I have been exposed to all sorts of different places (and different types of food). For my brother, a weekend is not complete if we haven’t hit the road–whether it’s a drive along the coast, a trip out to the new mochi donut shop, or even running errands at Costco.
Our parents have supported us in all our ventures as we tried new things: while neither of us took a liking to soccer, I enjoyed my ballet classes at the local rec center, and my brother is an avid runner. Their support, both emotionally and financially, has enabled us to receive proper coaching in order to hone our skills, from my brother’s weekly cross-country practices to my continuing education in writing and literature at a university whose faculty are committed to helping their students develop their craft and grow as artists.
But you don’t have to be a young person to find your passion, to discover what excites you. Expose yourself to new things, open yourself to new experiences. Find a friend (or two–maybe more) to support and encourage you–and don’t be afraid to seek out a mentor! You’re never too old–or too young–to find what you love.
There is Art in Science and Science in Art
Originally from the SF Bay Area, Phoebe Pineda currently studies Writing and Literature at the University of California Santa Barbara's College of Creative Studies. In addition to storytelling, she enjoys sunset-watching, road trips, and making art.
Anand and Phoebe first met at a Kid-to-Work Day over two decades ago. Once a week, they meet to discuss the various stories, experiences, memories, and lessons he's collected over the years. They approach each conversation from two different stages in life, one looking forward, the other looking back.
👆 this is one of the best fridayreflections. Enjoyed reading those 3 words.👏
Posted by: Childhood Friend | February 19, 2022 at 06:47 PM
Hi Anand
Your writings are the little packets of life’s lessons delivered on a regular basis.
Like the vitamins to the mind and the soul.
And “tastes. Good too !
Posted by: Nandeep Nagarkar | May 17, 2022 at 07:03 AM