This week's Friday Reflection is in response to a reader who sent in this question:
“What’s the quote about getting the door slammed in your face 10 times and being just as positive for the 11th? I need to give a young man some encouragement. Thanks”
It turns out that this reader is helping his stepson find a job. It has been tough due to the economy and his stepson was losing morale. So the request was made for the quote - which is below along with the original reflection - and I went searching. I found the quote in the archives from 2007.
I was surprised, touched, and honored that a Point to Ponder from over 4 years ago would still be remembered by a reader today. I wanted to say thank you to that reader, and all of the readers, for supporting Friday Reflections. I hope it has and will continue to make a difference in each of your individual journeys.
So to the reader with the fabulous memory, here's the answer you've been looking for...
Persistence Pays Part 4: From Homeless to Billionaire (Reprinted from 11/01/07)

(Not the reader in question)
"I have said many times that the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is that successful people do a lot of the things that unsuccessful people don't want to do. Like when the door is slammed in your face ten times, you go on to door number eleven with just as much enthusiasm.”
- John Paul Dejoria.
STORYLINE
If this were just another rags to riches story, I would probably not cover it here. However, the story of John Paul Dejoria was particularly exceptional and fascinating to me: because of his values, his "out-of-the-box thinking", and what he did with his phenomenal success.
John Paul grew up with a single parent, amongst the gangs of East Los Angeles, living in near poverty. At the age of nine, he would deliver newspapers at 3 o'clock in the morning with his brother, dreaming that he might earn $150 week someday so that he could afford a used car.
As fate would have it, while still in his early 20s, he became a single parent and now had a young son to support. To get by, he took various jobs - janitor, a gas station attendant, repairing bicycles, and selling encyclopedias - but during this time, he was homeless twice. Too proud to ask for help, he collected coke bottles and cans and cashed them in for small meals. By any standard, he was in deepest of valleys but managed to keep his hopes high.
In 1980, he finally got his break. He was able to borrow $700 with his friend, Paul Mitchell, to start a new company. This company would introduce a new line of hair care products under the brand name "Paul Mitchell".
At the time, this company consisted of one post office box and a single answering machine. The voice message on that machine was recorded by a female friend with an English accent in their office which was icidentally, the back seat of their car. The company could not afford colored ink and went with black and white packaging - which today is the instantly recognizable Paul Mitchell brand.
Instead of following the convention of chasing supermarkets and chain stores, the partners knocked on the doors of hair salons across the United States. They used an innovative sales strategy that had never been tried in the beauty industry before. They offered free demonstrations for customers and guaranteed that if the product didn't sell, the salons could return it without any conditions.
Suffice to say, the salons loved it and their customers did too. As the company grew, John Paul continued to innovate; running it with a management philosophy to hire, train and retain the best people, and reward them handsomely. As a result, his company operates with three to four times less resources than his competitors, or in his words, with “fewer moving parts ... fewer people doing more.”
With this combination of innovation and persistence in everything; ranging from design and sales to operations, his dream of earning $150/Week turned quickly into billions of dollars in assets. Today, John Paul Dejoria is still innovating. He is involved in many other ventures ranging from tequila and pet care products to solar cars and environmental projects. He donates $100s of millions to various charitable causes around the world. His motto is “Success unshared is failure.”
REFLECTION
There are a few common themes that come out of the lives of successful people.
1. They have dreams and know what they want to achieve.
2. They are willing to pay the price (whatever it may be) to achieve them.
3. They go for them with passion and never look back.
Hint: you can see other stories in our 'persistence pays' series by clicking here
Great story of Persistence and Innovation. I have watched John Paul on TV several times. Thorougly impressed with his creative mind, down to earth nature and enthusiasm. Thanks for the story.
Posted by: TL from Taipei | February 10, 2012 at 08:38 AM
My first piece of advice (if I were asked) to the stepson is to take some time and read the story of Job, for the story of Job, I have heard, it not just about one person, but about every person. I would also advise the young man, if he has some free time, to consider spending some of it in Church and then he would discover he is not alone, never has been alone, never will be alone and if God takes the time and effort to make sure birds of the sky have food to eat, would he not surely not take care of this young man?
Over 25 years ago, I was already attending SPIE conferences in San Jose and normally, the conference coincides with Lent. Before the show started, I would get up and walk down the street to morning Mass. One day, on the way back from Mass, I walked with a person and we became friends. I would only see him at the shows for he worked in Texas and my job did not take me to Texas in those days. The company I worked for would later be sold and I was not comfortable with the new owners. One day, I received a phone call from a man in charge of starting up a new company in the U.S. He said I had been recommended by one of his business associates. The business associate was the man from Texas whom I first met after going to morning Mass. Twenty two years later, I still work for JSR and Cesar Garza and I are still very good friends.
Nobody ever hurt their chances in life by going to Church. It is the one thing is life which has only upside and zero downside risk. Of that, I am sure!
Posted by: Eastcoast | February 10, 2012 at 08:40 AM
This article reminds me another quote…
Knowledge is not the power, Sharing is.
Posted by: CH (Malaysia) | February 12, 2012 at 07:32 PM